Finding the Right Culture to Fit Your Passion

By , 15 November, 2011, 16 Comments

 

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“How do I convince management that social media is a conversational medium when they just want to use it to push content?” 

This question, asked by Natali Zheng, at the recent Social Media Breakfast -MSP on community management, ignited a bit of controversy over my answer: “Quit your job.”

My co-presenter, Meg Knodle, answered the question first (more gracefully and logically than I) by sharing that: Data is the best way to sell up (I’m paraphrasing) and that you need to prove value to management in order to get them to understand what happens you talk with people instead of at people.

I completely agree with Meg, and have fought many of my own battles with clients and in organizations about how social media will be used as a tool in a marketing communications plan. I’ve sold up many times and been very successful, but I’ve also been in situations where it is clear that the business culture I’m dealing with is not one that wants to establish a human connection with its audiences, which is what I believe using digital marketing and social media is for. When someone asks a question like Natalie’s, I reflect upon my experiences and wonder how long one should expend energy on the good fight before looking onward to find an environment where passion to foster community among and organization and its audiences can thrive.

“A Culture is made – or destroyed – by its articulate voices.” -Ayn Rand.

I have found one thing to be paramount in my [career] travels thus far: That the values and cultural realities of my employer align with mine. Why? Because the ones leading dictate what voice, tone and actions an organization takes. Regardless of what an organization’s mission and values are on paper, in today’s world, who you really are will be seen by all whether you like it or not. While some organization’s have visionary and very customer-centric values, many like to act as if, but never come close to stacking up. If leadership wants to use mediums that are meant for conversation (social media) and only push messages, that tells me that something at the top is broken or lacks the proper education to play in the digital media sandbox. It is only natural that this will trickle down and show up in brand and employees will emulate this in their respective networks.

We’re in a time of great change in business and technology has disrupted us in several ways. It may just be my perspective, but I believe that those who’ve always been interested in establishing mutually beneficial relationships (truly) with their customers are having little problem navigating through this disruption. Leaders who’ve been around for 30+ years may not Tweet, Facebook or have any clue what the hell blogging is for, but they understand the importance and necessity of using these tools to further their mission and vision of connectivity, sharing and most importantly listening in order to enhance their product and service offering. And, they put the people in place to accomplish these tasks.

The Economy, Life choices and Status Quo
A lot of the heat my comment took related to how hard it is to find a job right now, how there are other steps to be taken and how some are in a place in their life where ‘quitting your job’ is simple not an option due to circumstance and choices previously made. To that, I have a few things to say.

A) There is a way to quit job and that is strategically, tactfully and once you’ve found a job that better suits your values and [business] cultural needs. Much work is required, but if you’re passionate about you do and are really good at it, it’s relatively simple to accomodate the need. I will emphasize that it is very difficult, but I’ve walked through this a few times and found that there is always light at the end of any dark tunnel. I’ve been in jobs that depressed me because of limitations and lack of fulfillment, but I never accepted that and took steps daily to get out. To read more on some of that, go here or here.

B) I’m not like most people. “fitting in” has never been something I do and I get more comfortable with that as time goes on. I  joked with a friend recently that the new “fitting in” is not “fitting in.”  Maybe I’m onto something.  I’m not trying to do it all. I don’t have kids’ college funds to worry about or many responsibilities outside of a husband, dog and mortgage (which seems like a lot as I type actually), so my looking glass on this doesn’t account for other factors.

C) I believe in disrupting cultures that have not traditionally fostered relationships with their customers. I also have a breaking point and believe in working for innovators instead of people who are fearful and lack the courage to seek truth in what they don’t understand. I seek this with a passion that is ferociously frightening.

A huge thanks to Monika Melsha, Crystal Grobe, Natalie Zheng and Lanae for the inspiration to write this. I’m looking forward to additional thoughts and feedback from you. It’s always refreshing to have my opinions and delivery challenged. It makes life exciting because I certainly don’t have all the answers.

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  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    Thanks for stopping by. My view obviously suits me – not everyone, but thrilled you identify with it. I’d definitely say my advocacy for passion makes the self-deemed passionista label appropriate;-) 

  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    It’s good that you’ve experienced it already lady. Makes it much easier to identify moving forward. Hope all is well. Thanks for commenting here. Sorry it took me so long to comment back. 

  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    :-)  

  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    This is the best comment ever posted on this blog. Thank you, Albert! It’s funny how things come at the exact time you need to hear them. I love what you’ve written, as it fits a very specific context of my life at the moment. I am grateful to know you and appreciate you stopping by here and sharing this. We need to catch up my friend. I hope your lovely family is doing splendidly. 

  • http://www.providentpartners.net/blog Albert_Maruggi

    my dear and admired friend Lisa, I applaud you for early career progress and your acknowledgement of not having college funds to worry about. I have 5, soon to be only 4 since #1 son graduating this weekend!   Life’s priorities and principles have a way of changing as those responsibilities come into play.  

    Many of you know me, Lisa does and she knows the choices I have made based on my priorities.  Priorities you know is like a personal culture. In my case Lisa knows where my kids rank in my personal culture.  There is plenty of things you’ll accept in order to achieve your priorities, and when you reach a point where the accommodations are in such conflict with your priorities, you’ll change.  You’ll change jobs or priorities, but something will change. 

    Even the social media treadmill has its culture to which many of us contribute.  Some have conflicts with this culture, we’ll gripe, but we go along to get along.  This is where a personal culture determines what you do with your time.  If you don’t post as much because your priorities have changed, (you know stuff like, kids home work, coaching, dog sick, client work, exhausted, etc. etc. etc.) you have decided that you are not going to “play that game”, then that’s a form of changing jobs. It is a form of you setting your pace, participating in your way and if that is accepted than fine. If not, then this whole concept of social community has changed from its initial attraction for me.  

    Companies exist for their own survival, when conversation and community are seen as an asset they will embrace it, when not, they won’t.  It’s that simple.  We’ll tolerate until we can’t then Change Happens. 

    I know many of the folks in this comment thread, you are a reason that I rearranged my priorities this day to comment here.  Thanks for being a priority for me today. 

     all the best to you.  

  • Vegasmike433

    Great passion with an host. You must be commended for sharing your passion with an unmistakable honesty and humility. There is so much complexity in this topic, because it does touch on every aspect of life. The environment in which we earn a living has an enormous impact on the overall quality of life, considering that this is where the largest percentage of our time and energies are expended. 

    Thank you for your effort to help others. Your courage and passion are admired and sincerely respected.

    Best Wishes,

    Michael P. Whelan

  • http://twitter.com/tiagohbueno Tiago Bueno

    brilliant article, totally agree the “quit your job” path is the right one to follow if you’re not happy with your work… and I was wondering if being an advocate for passion makes you a “passion passionista”…?  :-)

  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    Hi Josh. The fact that I’m commenting on this so late is slightly pathetic. I love your insight here and pulling out what I find vital as well. Being an advocate for passion is tricky sometimes and draws a lot of criticism, which I totally dig. It means that those of us seeking and doing need to keep speaking up because ultimately we live in a culture that doesn’t encourage us to find our passion, but trains us to do the opposite, ultimately surrendering our aspirations in the name of what ‘they’ tell us is happiness. Love the closing quote. Thanks for commenting here even though I write so infrequently.

  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    Thanks Michelle!

  • Belinda

    how about you take over facebook and make it back into a social network for the people to communicate and get together with total strangers again and not throw a bunch of constricting dictorial rules at us and get us our old scrolling wall and our privacy back please then

  • Michelle

    Lisa, love your post and your viewpoint 100%

  • http://www.bigpictureweb.com jlbraaten

    I’m really glad you wrote this, Lisa. Every time someone says, “I can’t just quit,” you can actually see the point at which their passion and will to do something awesome is stomped out by that pesky, primitive part of our brain that is risk-adverse and governed by fear. 

    Some may read your post and only take away that you should plan your exits as gracefully as your situation and sanity allows. I’ve done it both ways and will testify that leaving a job with a new one lined up is a much more desirable experience.

    The thing I hope people don’t miss is while you need to plan your approach to transition your jobs, first you need the courage to invest in and pursue the career that will make you happy in the long run. ”Happiness is that state of consciousness which proceeds from the achievement of one’s values.” (since we’re quoting Ayn Rand and all :) )

  • http://twitter.com/morganrhc Morgan Hay-Chapman

    Love this post! Senior management may not understand new tools and how they fit in but if they are willing to recognize the value that technology can bring to relationships then new tools can easily be integrated. Luckily I’ve already been fortunate enough to encounter this culture in internships and hope to find it again in future employers.

  • http://twitter.com/lulugrimm Lisa Grimm

    Love it, Ryan. There’s a way to do it, that’s for sure. I just gotta be happy:-) 

  • http://twitter.com/ryanruud Ryan Ruud

    Well said Lisa and fully support the “quit your job” sentiment. I’ve been through a couple of those cycles myself and don’t regret it one bit.

  • http://keithprivette.com @keithprivette

    Fully agree about the New fitting in is not fitting in. I think companies are thristy for these new directions for their company and culture, but do believe the wrong folks have been handing them the map.  Show the whole business and what it can gain from the culture change, process changes, and engagement strategies. Then you get them to pay attention and want to partner to make the changes.  On the flip side you have to 100% buy into you and the fit at that company if you dont you will not be fanataical about working and striving to make changes.  If you are you will find it a fun challenage to participate, lead, and or follow in the changes. If not yes quit your job, find where you fit in. Because if your DNA does not align with the DNA of the workplace, your DNA is gunna do some painful things to you trust me!
     
    I fully support the statement “Quit Your Job” just dont do it if you are a heart surgeon in open heart surgery as I post this, everyone else go forth and conquer!